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Codependency
What
is co- dependency? Pleasing Behaviors! Signs of Codependency and
Relationship Issues Understand and healing!
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| Codependency:
What
is Codependency?
by
the National Council on Codependency, Inc |
| Codependency:
Dysfunctional
Family -
"Responsible Child" - "Family Hero" , "Acting out child" - "Scapegoat"
, "Placater" - "Mascot" - "Caretaker" , "Adjuster" - "Lost Child"
By
Robert Burney |
| Codependency:
What
is Codependency? - Codependency and
Codependent Relationships Series 1 - This dance of Codependence
is a dance of dysfunctional relationships - of relationships that
do not work to meet our needs. That does not mean just romantic relationships,
or family relationships, or even human relationships in general.
By Robert Burney |
| Codependency:
Codependent
Relationships Dynamics,
Part One
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In our disease defense system we build up huge walls to protect ourselves
and then - as soon as we meet someone who will help us to repeat our
patterns of abuse, abandonment, betrayal, and/or deprivation - we
lower the drawbridge and invite them in. By
Robert Burney |
| Codependency:
Codependent
Relationships Dynamics,
Part
Two - As long as we believe that someone
else has the power to make us happy then we are setting ourselves
up to be victims" One of the biggest problems with relationships
in this society is that the context we approach them from is too small.
We were taught that getting the relationship is the goal. By
Robert Burney |
| Codependency:
Codependent
Relationships Dynamics,
Part
Three - “I spent most of my life doing the
Serenity prayer backwards, that is, trying to change the external
things over which I had no control - other people and life events
mostly - and taking no responsibility (except shaming and blaming
myself) for my own internal process - over which I can have some degree
of control. Having some control is not a bad thing; trying to control
something or somebody over which I have no control is what is dysfunctional.”
By
Robert Burney |
| Codependency:
Codependent
Relationships Dynamics,
Part
Four - “We are all carrying around repressed
pain, terror, shame, and rage energy from our childhoods By
Robert Burney |
| Codependency:
Just
Exactly What is Codependency? |
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Love
/ Sex Addictions
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Love
Addictions:
Learn
about the difference between love and infatuation; why
codependent people are inclined to get into abusive relationships,
and more...Tons
of Articles - on DR Irene.com
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Love
Addictions:
Love
Vs. Infatuation - Romantic
Love Fades Fast; The Real Thing's Not So Flashy. DR
Irene.com
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Love
Addictions: Is
it Love or Infatuation? Do
you enmeshing with your partners OR Do You Have Healthy Boarders
DR Irene.com
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| Love
Addictions: Learn
to recognize verbal abuse and understand what to do about it! Did
you enter the site on this page? Tons
of Articles - on DR Irene.com
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| Love
Addictions: Hot
and Cold Love Addicts: A Lethal Combination by
Susan Peabody |
| Love
Addictions: Unrealistic
Expectations For a Mate by DR Tracy |
| Love
Addictions: WHAT
IS IT? WHO GETS IT? And WHY? Dependent Love or Relationship Addiction
Romance Addiction Sexual Addiction by
Brenda Schaeffer " Author of "Is it Love or Is It Addiction
and Love's Way" |
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Healing
/ Recovery
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| Personal
Growth: Empowerment
and Victimization - the power of choice - "And
we always have a choice. If someone sticks a gun in my face and says,
"Your money or your life!" I have a choice. I may not like my choice
but I have one. In life we often don't like our choices because we
don't know what the outcome is going to be and we are terrified of
doing it 'wrong.' By
Robert Burney |
| Personal
Growth:
Setting
Personal Boundaries - protecting self -
"The purpose of having boundaries is to protect and take care of ourselves.
We need to be able to tell other people when they are acting in ways
that are not acceptable to us. A first step is starting to know that
we have a right to protect and defend ourselves. That we have not
only the right, but the duty to take responsibility for how we allow
others to treat us." By
Robert Burney |
| Personal
Growth: Self-Worth
- Awakening to Grace - "Not only were we taught to
be victims of people, places, and things, we were taught to be victims
of ourselves, of our own humanity. We were taught to take our ego-strength,
our self-definition from external manifestations of our being. By
Robert Burney |
| Letting
Go: Summary
Guide for Letting Go by
Dr Tracy |
| Letting
Go:
After
breaking up with someone you loved, even if you were the one who decided
to end it and don't feel rejected, you still feel a sense of loss,
and you ache for the love you were getting that's now gone by
DR Tracy |
| Letting
Go: When
He/She's Left You -- Coping by
DR Tracy |
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Healthy
Love/Romantic Relationships
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| Healthy
Love: Healthy
Romantic Relationships - Interdependent,
not codependent
Part 1- "A healthy romantic relationship is based on interdependence.
Codependence and interdependence are two very different dynamics.
Codependence is about giving away power over our self-esteem Interdependence
is about making allies, forming partnerships. It is about forming
connections with other beings. Interdependence means that we give
someone else some power over our welfare and our feelings."
By Robert Burney |
| Healthy
Love: Healthy
Romantic Relationships - Communication is Key - Part 2- "The
single most important component in a healthy relationship is the ability
to communicate. If two people have the capacity to communicate with
each other, then any issue can be worked through to some kind of clarity."
By
Robert Burney |
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| Healthy
Love:
Healthy
Relationships - Partners in the Journey Part 4.
If we expect
a romantic relationship to "fix" us so that we can live happily-ever-after
then we are setting ourselves up to be victims. If we define a successful
relationship as one that lasts forever and meets all of our needs,
then we will end up blaming ourselves or the other person when that
insane expectation is not met
By
Robert Burney |
| Healthy
Love: Healthy
Relationships - Healthy Joyous Sexuality - Part 5 Romantic
relationships are not the only type of relationships that we can feel
Loved in, of course, but they are the only relationships in which
we can completely connect with another being with all the levels of
our being: physical, emotional, mental, and Spiritual By
Robert Burney |
| Healthy
Love: Healthy
Relationships - Romantic Love as a Concept - Part 6 In
order to have healthier romantic relationships it is very important
to examine our concept of romantic love. If we do not have a healthy
concept - realistic definitions and beliefs about - romantic love,
then we do not have much chance of having a healthy relationship.
If our concept of romance is based on the fairy tales and books, songs
and movies, from our childhood's, then we are set up to be disappointed
in our romantic relationships." By
Robert Burney |
| Healthy
Love: Healthy
Relationships -Valentine's Day 2000 Part 7 - "For
a small minority of us, a true holiday of love. A time to celebrate
the love we are feeling for a significant other in our life. A time
to be grateful for the gift of romance, and to honor the partner who
is enriching our life. By
Robert Burney |
| Healthy
Love: Healthy
Relationships - Pay Attention and Communicate Part 8 People
tell us who they are within a very short time of meeting them. Pay
attention to what they are telling you. Watch and listen - this is
part of being present that was spoken of in an earlier article. Do
not let your desire for a relationship - your loneliness, horniness,
starvation for nurturing and touch - blind you to the red flags the
other person is waving before you." By
Robert Burney |
| Healthy
Love: Healthy
Relationships - The Greatest Arena for Spiritual growth Part 9 - A
romantic relationship is an adventure in growth, an joint expedition
into intimacy. A relationship cannot "fix" us - is not the goal where
happily ever after begins. By
Robert Burney |
| Healthy
Love: The
Steps To Commitment ( Healthy Committed Relationship) by
DR Tracy |
| Healthy
Love: What
Is Love?
The Characteristics of Healthy Love, Love, Of all the mysteries that
enchant us, love may be the one most sought after
by
Brenda Schaeffer " Author of "Is it Love or Is It Addiction,
and Love's Way"
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| Dating:
"Qualifying"
Someone For a Healthy Relationship by
DR Tracy |
| Dating:
For Women: Men to Avoid
- By DR Tracy
Part
1 and
Part
2 |
| Dating:
For Men: Women to Avoid -
by DR Tracy Part
1 and
Part
2
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